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Wednesday, July 23, 2014

Poems for Babies

Despite all the darkness that surrounds her life and death, my favorite two poems written for/about babies (for her daughter, Frieda, to be specific) are by Sylvia Plath. The descriptors are quite delightful - may they make your "hump day" a little bit brighter.

You’re
Sylvia Plath

Clownlike, happiest on your hands,
Feet to the stars, and moon-skulled,
Gilled like a fish. A common-sense
Thumbs-down on the dodo’s mode.
Wrapped up in yourself like a spool,
Trawling your dark as owls do.
Mute as a turnip from the Fourth
Of July to All Fools’ Day,
O high-riser, my little loaf.

Vague as fog and looked for like mail.
Farther off than Australia.
Bent-backed Atlas, our traveled prawn.
Snug as a bud and at home
Like a sprat in a pickle jug.
A creel of eels, all ripples.
Jumpy as a Mexican bean.
Right, like a well-done sum.
A clean slate, with your own face on.


Morning Song
Sylvia Plath

Love set you going like a fat gold watch.
The midwife slapped your footsoles, and your bald cry
Took its place among the elements.

Our voices echo, magnifying your arrival. New statue. 
In a drafty museum, your nakedness 
Shadows our safety. We stand round blankly as walls. 

I’m no more your mother 
Than the cloud that distills a mirror to reflect its own slow 
Effacement at the wind’s hand. 

All night your moth-breath 
Flickers among the flat pink roses. I wake to listen: 
A far sea moves in my ear. 

One cry, and I stumble from bed, cow-heavy and floral 
In my Victorian nightgown. 
Your mouth opens clean as a cat’s. The window square 

Whitens and swallows its dull stars. And now you try 
Your handful of notes; 
The clear vowels rise like balloons.

 


Tuesday, July 22, 2014

Feels like...102

It is finally truly hot outside. We have hardly seen 90's yet this summer, but this week is a combination of high temps and unusually high humidity. So we bit the bullet and put in our A/C window unit in our bedroom. Cricket is a fan.


I am back to putting in long hours at work and bringing work home. But fortunately it is largely work that I enjoy. It is a blessing and a curse to keep having more and more responsibilities added to my plate. Being busy is a challenge that fuels me, I love to learn new things, and being given increasing amounts of responsibilities means that my boss trusts and values me. The amount of work that I have, however, is starting to overflow to the point that it may take me a week or more to get back to someone (which is more than people tend to plan for in awaiting a project, I've found).

It is hard for me to have to give up saying "yes" to everything because it feels good to help others - I'm a people-pleaser by nature. I'm going to have to work on setting boundaries and saying, "I'm sorry but I just can't help you with that right now," which is surprisingly hard for me.

Anyway, I'm happy to put my energy into the long hours right now because next Friday begins our long-weekend vacation with family. Yay for beers and board games and the lake. And one week later we'll be in Europe.

Monday, July 14, 2014

Santé!

Bastille Day! And we are 25 days away from Paris.

raspberry, caramel and pistachio macaroons


Other than watching the Tour de France and the World Cup, here are a few things I've been up to lately...

AM runs with a new training app - 10k here I come!

Hopefully making this dress successfully thanks to a friend!
Sleeping in on non-work and non-farmers market days - c'est magnifique


The farmers market is finally in full swing and we'll be canning spicy dilly beans this weekend! Last year we only made 5 pints and they were delicious - so this year we'll be at least doubling our efforts. We also made 16 half-pints of strawberry-rhubarb jam a few weeks ago. Nothing like having sweet and spicy flavors stored for year-round enjoyment.

Tuesday, July 1, 2014

Flying By

Today is the first day of July -- can you believe it?? We had activities every weekend in June, so the month seemed to come and go in an instant. Fortunately our July is less booked, so we can get our bearings and soak up summer a bit more this month. Then, as I like to say, our month of fun begins....
  • The last weekend in July is our 1-year wedding anniversary, which warrants a nice dinner out anyway - and I'm pretty sure the bakery that made our wedding cake gives a free mini cake in honor of a one-year anniversary. Woohoo!
  • The first weekend in August we are going to Door County, WI for our annual family reunion. It has become a highlight of the year for us - sunrises and sunsets on the lake, drinking beer and playing board games, big breakfasts, and a cool old bookstore is at the heart of town.
  • The next weekend we'll be off to Paris. And the weekend after that we'll be in Brussels. And the weekend after that we'll be settling back in at home and reminiscing with photographs.
In the meantime, I'm trying to get into the habit of running, which I'm finding difficult with SB on summer vacation and always home. It is hard to motivate myself at 6am when I could just stay in bed with him. Fortunately or unfortunately, I signed up for a 6-mile run, the most ambitious run I've registered for to date, in late September. I still have time to get in shape for it... but cannot delay any longer! Wish me luck.

PS. Recipes to come soon. This weekend I made walnut bread that was quite gorgeous, if I do say so myself, and a savory pasta with shiitakes and swiss chard. And this weekend we are picking strawberries and making our second annual strawberry-rhubarb jam. Love this jam, and so excited to make it again this year.